Roses are red, wine is too, and I have found the perfect Valentineโs escape for you. This week, we travel to Carmel Valley, Californiaโa place that is near and dear to my heart. I got engaged here, celebrated my baby moon here, and even celebrated my five-year wedding anniversary with two-year-old twins in tow a lifetime ago.
Buckle Up, because I'm back to revisit one of the most romantic regions in the state with a fresh perspective but long affection for the people and the place. Carmel Valley somehow manages to be both "John Steinbeck agrarian" and "Mercedes-Benz luxury" at the exact same time. If your love language is artisanal goat cheese and California sunshine, look no furtherโitโs a match made in heaven.ย
Swipe right on this weekโs episode to find: A Love Letter to the Locals: The cheesemakers, vintners, and dreamers who make this valley feel like a family. ๐
1. The "Cowboy Culture" is Real ๐ค
The journey kicks off at Hacienda, a hay-and-feed-store-turned-community-hub.
The Lesson: Line dancing is the ultimate equalizer. Whether youโre a blue-collar local or a Pebble Beach resident, everyone looks equally confused doing a "Jazz Box" step.
The Pro-Tip: If you want to say hello without speaking, just "tip the hat." Itโs the original "Like" button, but with more felt.
2. Kitchen Connection at Lucia ๐ฅ
I go in the kitchen with Chef Joel at Lucia, and learn Alaskan Halibut requires more patience than a toddler.
Chef Wisdom: If the fish is sticking to the pan, youโre flipping too soon. Sing loudly and Let it go!
The Shocker: Parsley isnโt just for cleaning your teeth after dinner; itโs loaded with calcium. Forget the milk, eat the garnish.
The Dish Tip: Donโt be afraid to get a bunch of dishes dirty. Mess equals creativity. (Just make sure someone else is on cleaning duty).
3. Cheese Aging is Basically a Science Project ๐ง
At Carmel Valley Creamery, we went into the aging room where the "bloom" happens.
The Life of a Cheesemaker: It involves flipping cheese wheels daily and being covered in whey. Itโs less "glamour" and more "microbiology," but the result is lekker (Dutch for delicious).
4. The Bee Situation (Panic Included) ๐
I visit Lion Springs Lavender Farm, where owner Daphne Nixon has been stung 49 times.
The Vibe: Daphne is a total boss who built her dream house and farm from scratch because people told her she was crazy.
The Reality: There are roughly one million bees on the property. My strategy? "Act like a statue and pray."
5. Off-Roading for the Risk-Averse ๐
The trip ended at the Land Rover Experience, where I learn the #1 rule of driving a $100k car through the mud: "Drive as slow as possible, as fast as necessary."
The Moment of Truth: Tilting a vehicle at a 22-degree angle feels like a shipwreck, but apparently, as long as you have "10 and 2" hands and a "shuffle steer," youโll come out on top!
The Takeaway?
Carmel Valley is "undiscovered" wine country that feels like a family business. Whether you're there for the wine, the lavender honey, or the 13-degree rollover angles, just remember the local toast: Lekker, Lekker, Super Lekker!
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Keep reading for our beloved Jade Hernandezโs personal take on the trip, plus our weekend travel guide youโre guaranteed to fall in love with!
xoxo, Monique

Monique, Jade + Brenton Corns - Land Rover Experience at Quail Lodge
๐ Bee Still My Heart
This sentimentโโBee Still My Heartโโreally holds two meanings for me (Jade Hernandez ๐). First, thereโs the moment you stop dead in your tracks, mesmerized by what you behold. Now, take that and then remove the romantic aspect of it and insert the sound of one million bees. ACTUAL BEES! Suddenly, the phrase takes on a very different meaning!
As a producer, I'm always looking for adventures that jump off the screen. When we decided on Carmel Valley, Monique had discovered Daphne Nixon of Lion Springs Lavender Farm, who hand-crafts mouth-watering, sea-salted lavender caramels using her own sweet honey.
While Monique was talking about a sweet (and safe) moment of making caramels in the kitchen with Daphne, the producer in me had another moment in mind. ๐
โUh, Monique? How do you feel about bees?โ
Well, you can see where this is headed. Full disclosure: I am DEATHLY afraid of bees. I know they are teeny, tiny, yellow heroes of pollination, but they are also the source of my major nightmares! Luckily, Monique is not one to shy away from a challenge. As you watch the clip below, youโll see her face a literal million-bee swarm. I was squirming in my seat watching the footageโand you will be, too!
(And yes, I "conveniently" had to be at another location during this interview... but watching the footage makes me feel like I was right there in the line of fire!) ๐
๐๏ธ From Vineyards to Volkswagens: The Ben Pon Story
Sips, Sketches, and Six-Cylinders
by Jade Hernandez
Hidden gems are tucked away in the most unexpected places in Carmel Valleyโand nowhere is this truer than at Bernardus Winery. While the winery is famous for its world-class pours, it holds a backstory far richer than most realize. Even the most seasoned enthusiasts might not know the incredible link between founder Ben Pon and the history of Volkswagen.
What could a glass of fine wine and a German automaker possibly have in common? To find the answer, you only need to look at the walls. Step into the tasting room in the heart of downtown Carmel Valley, and youโll find a gallery of Ben Ponโs extensive racing resumeโa visual testament to a man who lived life in the fast lane long before he mastered the vineyard.

Bernardus Marinus "Ben" Pon - Dutch vintner, Olympian and motor racing driver
Inside the tasting room, youโll find a specific sketch of a boxy, functional vehicle. When Pon visited Wolfsburg, Germany, in 1946, an improvised parts-mover called a โPlattenwagenโ caught his eye. He thought, "Hmmmmm," and put pen to paper. That 1947 doodle by a young Ben Pon eventually became the reality we know as the iconic VW Bus (the Type 2 Transporter).

Just last year, Volkswagen re-released an all-new electric version of that bus, stoking the craze once again. Yet, this entire cultural phenomenon wouldn't exist if it weren't for the sketch inspired by the man behind the wine. Itโs a legendary backstory found right here at Bernardus Wineryโjust one of the many reasons youโll leave Carmel Valley amazed.
๐ง Rind Over Matter: Finding the Heart of the Valley
Cheesy Does It at Carmel Valley Creamery
by Jade Hernandez
Road trips are the best when it comes to discovering little out-of-the-way wonders. Usually, you have an itinerary set and you are bound and determined to get from A to Z; a road trip is just the thing to break all that up and get you from C to Q in just the way you need, but never would have planned on your own.
Our show took me to a spot I might have driven past on my way to a nearby winery, but itโs definitely not one I will miss the next time I visit Carmel Valley. Inside the quaint, gray buildingโwith big, bold red letters proclaiming Carmel Valley Creameryโyouโll find a taste of all things โthe valley.โ Artisanal artwork graced tables and specialty treats filled wooden bookshelves (lots of it, local). Coolers along the back wall, filled with chilled drinks, wines, and anything you can think of to put in a picnic basket, dizzied my eyes with too many possibilities. And of course, on the top shelf: their very own artisanal cheese.
On the way out to the back patio, I found, on this particular visit, the most colorful seasonal $20 bouquets from Barefoot Floral. You see, everything inside this Creamery is set up so even if this is one of the few spots you stop in Carmel Valley, you will feel as if youโve really spent time with the community hereโbecause you are not only surrounded by it, but are consuming it through drink, cheese, and art.
Jade and Monique at Carmel Valley Creamery
In every episode, I always tell Monique I learn at LEAST one thing (usually, a LIST of things). Here, I learned: Yes, you CAN eat the bloomy rind of a cheese wheel! That rind is a living part of the cheese's ecosystem, creating that gooey, "runny" texture we love. I always wondered, and at some point, Iโm sure weโve all heard someone ask this very question. In fact, that rind grows over time during the process of making the cheese... but thatโs just something youโve gotta see for yourself! ๐
The Cheese Rind Cheat Sheet:
Bloomy Rinds (Brie, Camembert): Soft, white, and delicious. Eat it!
Washed Rinds (Taleggio): The "stinky" pink/orange ones. Safe to eat, but pungent!
Natural Rinds (Stilton): Hard or gritty. Chefโs choice (skip if itโs too tough).
Waxed/Cloth Rinds (Manchego, Gouda): Purely for protection. Do not eat.
Sip Tip: If youโre ever unsure, just remember: if it looks like soft bread or fluff, itโs usually part of the experience. If it looks like a candle or a piece of wood, set it aside!
Jade Hernandez in Carmel Valley Creameryโs Aging Room
๐ท The Sip, Stay, & Play Carmel Valley Valentineโs Guide ๐
Whether you're bringing a date or just your favorite glass, these spots are a total match.
Stop | The "Vibe" | Must-Do Activity | Sip Tip |
The Hacienda | Heart-Thumping Fun | Line dance with your sweetheart on the dance floor. | A "Heel-Stomp" goes best with a crisp local lagerโcheers to a good cause! |
Bernardus Lodge | The Ultimate Date Night | Cozy up at the Chefโs Table and leave your mark like Julia Child. | Walk in the rose garden before a romantic Mercedes-Benz joyride. |
CV Market | Picnic for Two | Grab French fromage and apricots for "love at first bite." | Pair the local goat cheese with bubblyโitโs the "Leo" of the wine world. |
The Parsonage | Wrapped in Love | Cozy up under hand-stitched quilts and vineyard views. | The Syrah is dark, bold, and much more reliable than your ex. |
Lion Springs | Sweet & Scented | Walk through the purple bloomsโa real-life rom-com set. | Try the lavender honey; itโs the sweetest way to say "Bee Mine." |
Land Rover | Adventure & Adrenaline | Hold on tight during a side-tiltโthe perfect excuse to grab a hand. | "Slow as possible" is the rule. Save the toast for when you're on level ground! |
