Roses are red, wine is too, and I have found the perfect Valentineโ€™s escape for you. This week, we travel to Carmel Valley, Californiaโ€”a place that is near and dear to my heart. I got engaged here, celebrated my baby moon here, and even celebrated my five-year wedding anniversary with two-year-old twins in tow a lifetime ago.

Buckle Up, because I'm back to revisit one of the most romantic regions in the state with a fresh perspective but long affection for the people and the place. Carmel Valley somehow manages to be both "John Steinbeck agrarian" and "Mercedes-Benz luxury" at the exact same time. If your love language is artisanal goat cheese and California sunshine, look no furtherโ€”itโ€™s a match made in heaven.ย 

Swipe right on this weekโ€™s episode to find: A Love Letter to the Locals: The cheesemakers, vintners, and dreamers who make this valley feel like a family. ๐Ÿ‘‡

1. The "Cowboy Culture" is Real ๐Ÿค 

The journey kicks off at Hacienda, a hay-and-feed-store-turned-community-hub.

  • The Lesson: Line dancing is the ultimate equalizer. Whether youโ€™re a blue-collar local or a Pebble Beach resident, everyone looks equally confused doing a "Jazz Box" step.

  • The Pro-Tip: If you want to say hello without speaking, just "tip the hat." Itโ€™s the original "Like" button, but with more felt.

2. Kitchen Connection at Lucia ๐Ÿฅ˜

I go in the kitchen with Chef Joel at Lucia, and learn Alaskan Halibut requires more patience than a toddler.

  • Chef Wisdom: If the fish is sticking to the pan, youโ€™re flipping too soon. Sing loudly and Let it go!

  • The Shocker: Parsley isnโ€™t just for cleaning your teeth after dinner; itโ€™s loaded with calcium. Forget the milk, eat the garnish.

  • The Dish Tip: Donโ€™t be afraid to get a bunch of dishes dirty. Mess equals creativity. (Just make sure someone else is on cleaning duty).

3. Cheese Aging is Basically a Science Project ๐Ÿง€

At Carmel Valley Creamery, we went into the aging room where the "bloom" happens.

  • The Life of a Cheesemaker: It involves flipping cheese wheels daily and being covered in whey. Itโ€™s less "glamour" and more "microbiology," but the result is lekker (Dutch for delicious).

4. The Bee Situation (Panic Included) ๐Ÿ

I visit Lion Springs Lavender Farm, where owner Daphne Nixon has been stung 49 times.

  • The Vibe: Daphne is a total boss who built her dream house and farm from scratch because people told her she was crazy.

  • The Reality: There are roughly one million bees on the property. My strategy? "Act like a statue and pray."

5. Off-Roading for the Risk-Averse ๐Ÿš™

The trip ended at the Land Rover Experience, where I learn the #1 rule of driving a $100k car through the mud: "Drive as slow as possible, as fast as necessary."

  • The Moment of Truth: Tilting a vehicle at a 22-degree angle feels like a shipwreck, but apparently, as long as you have "10 and 2" hands and a "shuffle steer," youโ€™ll come out on top!

The Takeaway?

Carmel Valley is "undiscovered" wine country that feels like a family business. Whether you're there for the wine, the lavender honey, or the 13-degree rollover angles, just remember the local toast: Lekker, Lekker, Super Lekker!

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Keep reading for our beloved Jade Hernandezโ€™s personal take on the trip, plus our weekend travel guide youโ€™re guaranteed to fall in love with!

xoxo, Monique

Monique, Jade + Brenton Corns - Land Rover Experience at Quail Lodge

๐Ÿ Bee Still My Heart

This sentimentโ€”โ€œBee Still My Heartโ€โ€”really holds two meanings for me (Jade Hernandez ๐Ÿ‘‹). First, thereโ€™s the moment you stop dead in your tracks, mesmerized by what you behold. Now, take that and then remove the romantic aspect of it and insert the sound of one million bees. ACTUAL BEES! Suddenly, the phrase takes on a very different meaning!

As a producer, I'm always looking for adventures that jump off the screen. When we decided on Carmel Valley, Monique had discovered Daphne Nixon of Lion Springs Lavender Farm, who hand-crafts mouth-watering, sea-salted lavender caramels using her own sweet honey.

While Monique was talking about a sweet (and safe) moment of making caramels in the kitchen with Daphne, the producer in me had another moment in mind. ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

โ€œUh, Monique? How do you feel about bees?โ€

Well, you can see where this is headed. Full disclosure: I am DEATHLY afraid of bees. I know they are teeny, tiny, yellow heroes of pollination, but they are also the source of my major nightmares! Luckily, Monique is not one to shy away from a challenge. As you watch the clip below, youโ€™ll see her face a literal million-bee swarm. I was squirming in my seat watching the footageโ€”and you will be, too!

(And yes, I "conveniently" had to be at another location during this interview... but watching the footage makes me feel like I was right there in the line of fire!) ๐Ÿ‘‡

๐ŸŽ๏ธ From Vineyards to Volkswagens: The Ben Pon Story

Sips, Sketches, and Six-Cylinders

by Jade Hernandez

Hidden gems are tucked away in the most unexpected places in Carmel Valleyโ€”and nowhere is this truer than at Bernardus Winery. While the winery is famous for its world-class pours, it holds a backstory far richer than most realize. Even the most seasoned enthusiasts might not know the incredible link between founder Ben Pon and the history of Volkswagen.

What could a glass of fine wine and a German automaker possibly have in common? To find the answer, you only need to look at the walls. Step into the tasting room in the heart of downtown Carmel Valley, and youโ€™ll find a gallery of Ben Ponโ€™s extensive racing resumeโ€”a visual testament to a man who lived life in the fast lane long before he mastered the vineyard.

Bernardus Marinus "Ben" Pon - Dutch vintner, Olympian and motor racing driver

Inside the tasting room, youโ€™ll find a specific sketch of a boxy, functional vehicle. When Pon visited Wolfsburg, Germany, in 1946, an improvised parts-mover called a โ€œPlattenwagenโ€ caught his eye. He thought, "Hmmmmm," and put pen to paper. That 1947 doodle by a young Ben Pon eventually became the reality we know as the iconic VW Bus (the Type 2 Transporter).

Just last year, Volkswagen re-released an all-new electric version of that bus, stoking the craze once again. Yet, this entire cultural phenomenon wouldn't exist if it weren't for the sketch inspired by the man behind the wine. Itโ€™s a legendary backstory found right here at Bernardus Wineryโ€”just one of the many reasons youโ€™ll leave Carmel Valley amazed.

๐Ÿง€ Rind Over Matter: Finding the Heart of the Valley

Cheesy Does It at Carmel Valley Creamery

by Jade Hernandez

Road trips are the best when it comes to discovering little out-of-the-way wonders. Usually, you have an itinerary set and you are bound and determined to get from A to Z; a road trip is just the thing to break all that up and get you from C to Q in just the way you need, but never would have planned on your own.

Our show took me to a spot I might have driven past on my way to a nearby winery, but itโ€™s definitely not one I will miss the next time I visit Carmel Valley. Inside the quaint, gray buildingโ€”with big, bold red letters proclaiming Carmel Valley Creameryโ€”youโ€™ll find a taste of all things โ€œthe valley.โ€ Artisanal artwork graced tables and specialty treats filled wooden bookshelves (lots of it, local). Coolers along the back wall, filled with chilled drinks, wines, and anything you can think of to put in a picnic basket, dizzied my eyes with too many possibilities. And of course, on the top shelf: their very own artisanal cheese.

On the way out to the back patio, I found, on this particular visit, the most colorful seasonal $20 bouquets from Barefoot Floral. You see, everything inside this Creamery is set up so even if this is one of the few spots you stop in Carmel Valley, you will feel as if youโ€™ve really spent time with the community hereโ€”because you are not only surrounded by it, but are consuming it through drink, cheese, and art.

Jade and Monique at Carmel Valley Creamery

In every episode, I always tell Monique I learn at LEAST one thing (usually, a LIST of things). Here, I learned: Yes, you CAN eat the bloomy rind of a cheese wheel! That rind is a living part of the cheese's ecosystem, creating that gooey, "runny" texture we love. I always wondered, and at some point, Iโ€™m sure weโ€™ve all heard someone ask this very question. In fact, that rind grows over time during the process of making the cheese... but thatโ€™s just something youโ€™ve gotta see for yourself! ๐Ÿ‘‡

The Cheese Rind Cheat Sheet:

  • Bloomy Rinds (Brie, Camembert): Soft, white, and delicious. Eat it!

  • Washed Rinds (Taleggio): The "stinky" pink/orange ones. Safe to eat, but pungent!

  • Natural Rinds (Stilton): Hard or gritty. Chefโ€™s choice (skip if itโ€™s too tough).

  • Waxed/Cloth Rinds (Manchego, Gouda): Purely for protection. Do not eat.

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Sip Tip: If youโ€™re ever unsure, just remember: if it looks like soft bread or fluff, itโ€™s usually part of the experience. If it looks like a candle or a piece of wood, set it aside!

Jade Hernandez in Carmel Valley Creameryโ€™s Aging Room

๐Ÿท The Sip, Stay, & Play Carmel Valley Valentineโ€™s Guide ๐Ÿ’•

Whether you're bringing a date or just your favorite glass, these spots are a total match.

Stop

The "Vibe"

Must-Do Activity

Sip Tip

The Hacienda

Heart-Thumping Fun

Line dance with your sweetheart on the dance floor.

A "Heel-Stomp" goes best with a crisp local lagerโ€”cheers to a good cause!

Bernardus Lodge

The Ultimate Date Night

Cozy up at the Chefโ€™s Table and leave your mark like Julia Child.

Walk in the rose garden before a romantic Mercedes-Benz joyride.

CV Market

Picnic for Two

Grab French fromage and apricots for "love at first bite."

Pair the local goat cheese with bubblyโ€”itโ€™s the "Leo" of the wine world.

The Parsonage

Wrapped in Love

Cozy up under hand-stitched quilts and vineyard views.

The Syrah is dark, bold, and much more reliable than your ex.

Lion Springs

Sweet & Scented

Walk through the purple bloomsโ€”a real-life rom-com set.

Try the lavender honey; itโ€™s the sweetest way to say "Bee Mine."

Land Rover

Adventure & Adrenaline

Hold on tight during a side-tiltโ€”the perfect excuse to grab a hand.

"Slow as possible" is the rule. Save the toast for when you're on level ground!

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